stop smoking!!!

i know that most of you out there will probably smoke so i just wanted to warn you and to try and make you stop.
just recently my grandad died. he was only 52years old.he smoked and he died instantly of a heart attack.this was because he smoked.
i dont want anyone else to die at a young age so please take this into account and stop smoking.
i have lost someone very close to me and it has upset me lots.i miss him with all my heart and i would want anyone else to go through this torture.

my boyfriend smokes and he wont listen to me. he said that he would stop but he still hasnt. i know that it takes time but i dont want to loose anyone else.

guess you lot do not care

I care Grace, very much so and I am a smoker to and trying desperately to stop. Can we email as I dont want to talk on here and Ive so many reasons I need to stop?
Steve in England

i dont think i can do that because my boyfriend wouldnt like it. my grandad was called Steve as well.

IF YOU DONT MIND ME ASKING HOW OLD ARE YOU??? AND HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN SMOKING???

y dont you want to talk on here?

if steve doesn't want to talk about it on here then that is his buisness ok grace i know what its like to lose a close one and even if my dad didn't die from smoking he still smoked and i tried to make him stop but i'm with you 100% on this hun smoking is the way to an early grave

i wasnt asking him in a nasty way i was just wundering why he didnt want to talk on here.
its a horrible feeling isnt it??

yeah it is all i can reccamend to you to help you cope is telling the people close to you what your feeling i didn't i bottled all my feelings up and i still have many unresolved issues with my family about that time in my life so all i can say is be honest and tell your family what your feeling and what you think

i have and we are all feeling the smae at the moment.we keep having wierd things happening to us but if i told you you probably wouldnt think them as a coincidance (cnt spell).if you get what i mean. i went to see him while he was in his coffin so that i could say my good byes properly. i went in with my mam and we came out laughing our heads off because all we did while we were in there was think about the good times we had with him.

that is so good i am soo happy that you could do that i was only twelve when my dad died so i wasn't allowed to go and see him but i wish i could of

i know that this is probably a silly question but why wernt you allowed. you had the right to go and see him because he was your dad.

i know but i wasn't allowed to do alot of things i wanted, thats what i ment before about saying what you feel otherwise nobody knows waht you think my dad died when he was at home and i was told to sleep at my cousins house so that my nana could stay in my bed and help my mum so i've alwasy resented my mum for sending me away i wanted to be there for my dad but when i mentioned it the other day my mum said that she didn't want me to be scared by the images and thoughts of his death like she is which i found completely unfair i wanted to be there for him i wanted to be given the choice but i wasn't and i mean my dad died four years ago and things like this are only just getting disscussed so its better to say how you feel now rarther than later

now i dont think thats fair at all. i would have hated that. but im sure your dad knows that you miss him and he has obviously heard you saying to himm goodbye and things like that.i know this is a silly thing to do but im now scared of the dark. i know that there is nothing to be scared of and i know that my grandad wouldnt hurt me but im just scared. do you know what i mean???